Its so funny that when I started this blog, I had so many thoughts on what to write! Now that I actually have one...I cant think of anything to write!! I don't know if that's a good thing or a bad thing.
Anyone who knows me, knows that my mind is always going a mile a min. Sometimes it drives me nuts, and at other times i find it comforting. My mind has a mind of its own... Is it just me or is it hard trying to figure out sometimes what your mind is trying to tell you. And how do u know if its your mind or your heart?
I know...What a short blog, but sometimes its good to be short and sweet!!!
Sunday, March 1, 2009
Thursday, February 19, 2009
Friends...
Friend...
A friend is defined as"a person attached to another by feelings of affection or personal regard." (dictionary.com)
How many people can honestly say they have a ton of friends?? The old folks use to say you only need a handful of friends... Is that true??
A part of me says yes but at the same time each friend I feel is different for everything. I can honestly say I have 3 best friends, 3 great friends, 1 honest friend, and 1 pure true friend.
My 3 best friends are the friends that I will have to the day I die! We have been through somethings that only they know and will understand. I love them to death and would do anything for anyone of them at anytime.
Now my 3 great friends are friends that I just recently met through the last 2 years I've lived in the DC area. Even though everyday I seem to learn more and more about them I cant honestly call them my best friends because I have not been through anything serious with them. These are my friends that i chill with, have girl talks, go out with and just enjoy life with them...not saying i don't enjoy life with my other friends! LOL!! These friends will 1 day become my best friends as well, while the other 3 maintain there spots! :-)
Now my 1 honest friend, {once again not saying that all my other friends are not honest} is a guy a met not to long ago. We dated for a little bit and though currently he still has my heart, I can "honestly" say he is really a good friend to have. Even though with our circumstance right now, with us currently not speaking...I know for a fact if i ever needed anything at all I know he will be there, and vice versa! He is one of those friends that tell u exactly what he is thinking and will let u know exactly how he feels, whether its good or bad or how u might feel! If its 3 am and I need someone to talk to, I know he will be there to listen...with a snore or 2 in the background ;-)
Last but def not least is my 1 pure true friend... We met freshman year in college, when we were still trying to figure out who we were. And in the mist of trial and error she never judged me at all. Even when I wasn't a friend to her she still was a friend to me. I don't get to see her very often at all because we are two different people doing 2 different things with our lives right now. She is really a great friend and I love and cherish our friendship more then anyone. She has seen me at my lows and never at my high, and she still never looked at me differently then from the first day of when we met.
Now I know a lot of people are trying to figure out which friend they are but for the people that are actually mentioned should know exactly where they are. :-) If your thinking...why didn't she mention me and our times...its not saying that ur not a friend its just saying these are MY FRIENDS!!! The people who help shape and mold me to who I am today.
Do you have friends like that? Or do u only have 1 or 2 best friends??
A friend is defined as"a person attached to another by feelings of affection or personal regard." (dictionary.com)
How many people can honestly say they have a ton of friends?? The old folks use to say you only need a handful of friends... Is that true??
A part of me says yes but at the same time each friend I feel is different for everything. I can honestly say I have 3 best friends, 3 great friends, 1 honest friend, and 1 pure true friend.
My 3 best friends are the friends that I will have to the day I die! We have been through somethings that only they know and will understand. I love them to death and would do anything for anyone of them at anytime.
Now my 3 great friends are friends that I just recently met through the last 2 years I've lived in the DC area. Even though everyday I seem to learn more and more about them I cant honestly call them my best friends because I have not been through anything serious with them. These are my friends that i chill with, have girl talks, go out with and just enjoy life with them...not saying i don't enjoy life with my other friends! LOL!! These friends will 1 day become my best friends as well, while the other 3 maintain there spots! :-)
Now my 1 honest friend, {once again not saying that all my other friends are not honest} is a guy a met not to long ago. We dated for a little bit and though currently he still has my heart, I can "honestly" say he is really a good friend to have. Even though with our circumstance right now, with us currently not speaking...I know for a fact if i ever needed anything at all I know he will be there, and vice versa! He is one of those friends that tell u exactly what he is thinking and will let u know exactly how he feels, whether its good or bad or how u might feel! If its 3 am and I need someone to talk to, I know he will be there to listen...with a snore or 2 in the background ;-)
Last but def not least is my 1 pure true friend... We met freshman year in college, when we were still trying to figure out who we were. And in the mist of trial and error she never judged me at all. Even when I wasn't a friend to her she still was a friend to me. I don't get to see her very often at all because we are two different people doing 2 different things with our lives right now. She is really a great friend and I love and cherish our friendship more then anyone. She has seen me at my lows and never at my high, and she still never looked at me differently then from the first day of when we met.
Now I know a lot of people are trying to figure out which friend they are but for the people that are actually mentioned should know exactly where they are. :-) If your thinking...why didn't she mention me and our times...its not saying that ur not a friend its just saying these are MY FRIENDS!!! The people who help shape and mold me to who I am today.
Do you have friends like that? Or do u only have 1 or 2 best friends??
WELCOME...
I'm not an expert in blogging, or in advice, but I always have 50 million thoughts in my head so why not share them!!! All I ask is that you don't judge me for what I write! Most of everything will be my thoughts, however, I do have friends with thoughts as well that I might share with you.
In this blog I will talk about any and everything... different things to do, parties, drinks, relationships, sex, friends, enemies, school, work, everyday stress... basically anything that comes to my mind at the time I will write! Good, bad and the ugly. Somethings will make people look at me like WTF but at the same time, it will be 100% the truth...so if u say WTF... all I ask once again is dont judge!
Well, I hope you like it and continue to read as I continue to write!
Thanks,
Ashlea B.
I'm not an expert in blogging, or in advice, but I always have 50 million thoughts in my head so why not share them!!! All I ask is that you don't judge me for what I write! Most of everything will be my thoughts, however, I do have friends with thoughts as well that I might share with you.
In this blog I will talk about any and everything... different things to do, parties, drinks, relationships, sex, friends, enemies, school, work, everyday stress... basically anything that comes to my mind at the time I will write! Good, bad and the ugly. Somethings will make people look at me like WTF but at the same time, it will be 100% the truth...so if u say WTF... all I ask once again is dont judge!
Well, I hope you like it and continue to read as I continue to write!
Thanks,
Ashlea B.
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